Showing posts with label Nooks in the Hive. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Nooks in the Hive. Show all posts

Friday, April 13, 2007

Grab a Cuppa! This is going to be a long one...

That's right...we have a lot of catching up to do here. I've been working on things the last few weeks that I need to update you all on, so grab a cup of joe (or tea, water, whatever), find a cozy seat, and let's get caught up.

Well...I guess this is obvious...another corner of my hive. I love this color on the walls - during the day it's so cheerful as the light streams in, and at night, it's so calming and soothing. I chose to accent our room in red for two reasons: I like the color combination, and the significance of red in Chinese culture. For those of you who don't know me personally, my DH happens to be Chinese. So in decorating our house, I've found a combination called "Eurasian chic" is what suits us best. It's very simple and non-cluttered, with only the things that we love and have personal meaning for us and our family. So...that means lots of things symbolizing both the Chinese and Scandinavian/Celtic roots of our family. Also, the bed and nighttables were handmade by Bob (in the earlier years before the kiddies).

Moving on...

You might remember me mentioning this dress. Well, I did finish it (with a few adjustments)! The zipper was giving me quite the fright, and after three times of ripping out the seams, I finally just sewed up the back seem and used four hooks-and-eyes to close up the top. I really love it; it's just so dang comfortable, especially with a tank or t-shirt underneath, my black leggings, and black ballet flats. Tres chic, mai oui? It's a McCall's pattern I picked up at Walmart for $2.99, and the fabric is from Joann's. Someday I'll model it for you...
Next!


A little bunny love! I had set out to make the whole bunny for the kiddies, but Will, being curious as only a 3 1/2 yr. old can be, saw this bunny's face and wanted him right away. He's a thrifted and felted bunny face, made with much love from my dear grandmother's sweaters. They have been sitting in my cedar chest for years, and I just couldn't depart with them, even though the were full of holes and such. So...felted they were and now are being turned into what I am calling "Funny Faces". After an overwhelming response from family and friends from the bunnies at Easter, I am now working on pigs, dogs, sheep, and cats. Keep reading...they may be for sale at Etsy soon!

That's right....

As soon as I get feedback from a few good friends on these prototypes, I hope to be up and running at Etsy. You know how inspiration often comes at the strangest times, in the strangest places? I used to plan my best lessons when I was still teaching in the shower in the morning before school. Well, this idea came to me while I was running on the treadmill at the gym! When I work out, I don't glow or glisten; I sweat. And having to stop every minute or so to wipe my brow and push back my sweaty bangs was not so fun. I looked for sweatbands online, but they were all, dare I say, rather masculine. I believe in equality as much as the next person, but I still want to look cute when I work out. I don't need a big Adidas or Nike on my forehead. So, being the problem solver that I am, I came up with the idea of the Wick Band. It's essentially a headband, with cute fabric on the front and an aborbent layer of terry cloth next to your head. It's elastic (covered also in terry cloth) that makes it adjustable for just about any sized head, and the terry cloth makes it more comfortable and absorbs sweat there as well. Make sense?

I'm also working on Wick Wipes (again fabric on one side, terry cloth on the other...a cuter towel alternative for the gym) and a Wick Tote (same idea, but in a tote bag, so the inside doesn't get all wet with your water bottle and clothes after you change). I did some research, and there doesn't seem to be anything like this around, so I hope that others might be interested in these as well. In addition to being useful at the gym, I thought the bands might be great when your gardening, and even for women in labor. Kind of weird, but you know how mussed up you get....the band would keep the sweat off your face and make you presentable for all of those pictures. Andyhow, I'll keep you posted....


I also am working on these in my "spare" time....

The head band theme seems to be stuck in my head. These are more for little girls (of which I have none in my immediate or extended family!) and are essentially braided. Again, I'm still working on the prototype, so I'll let you know how it goes.

Finally (yes, you're almost to the end), I couldn't let a Friday post go by without adding this picture, because it reminds me of the TRUE inspiration in my life. As long as I have the three guys in my life, I am truly blessed. All the rest is just icing on the proverbial cake...so for all of you, a little baby love...



Friday, March 2, 2007

All's well in this Hive...

Happiness. For me, it's always been a really elusive thing. Every time something good happened in my life, I'd always wait for the other shoe to drop. And it seemed like Fate was ready and willing to take off that size 8 shoe and drop it into my life. When I was pregnant the very first time, I willed myself not to get as giddy as I wanted to be....and then I miscarried. Even as I had the life I'd always dreamed of-a wonderful husband, two healthy, happy babies, a house of my own....I'd already decided it couldn't last, wouldn't last...so why be happy? I tried to fill the hole inside with food, with keeping busy, joining groups, and buying THAT book, EVERY book that promised an answer. I thought....it's out there...that "perfect" life that will make be happy if I just buy this, wear this, say this, do this....

But that's why depression, especially PPD, is so hard to see in yourself. You, and others in your life, start to make depression a personality trait. It starts to define WHO and WHAT you are; it takes all your energy and creativity and turns it into a very dark and lonely place....And I feel extremely fortunate that I climbed my way out of that dark and lonely place....

So...all is well in my hive. You can see that I've changed the title of this blog....it's a long story as to why my babies are called baby bees, but they are, and so I am the Queen Bee in this hive, being the only female in the house. And I love my hive....

On this Gratitude Friday (an idea I "borrowed" from many lovely other Queen Bees out there)... here's what I'm grateful for:


1. Contentment - The peace that comes with knowing that you are where you belong and where you want to be. At the end of the day knowing that I don't wish for more than this....

2. Strength - The emotional, physical, and intellectual knowledge that I have stared my demons and my past in the face and said you will not be what defines me. I am my own person; I am not the shadows of the past - all the women who came before me who could not face up to this inheritance of depression. I WILL not make it my legacy.

3. Creativity - The joy in knowing that what I make with my hands, my spirit, my heart, and my soul will express the whole of who I am. That expressing myself will benefit those I love and show them how much I care...

4. Flaws - Yes, I am grateful for my flaws. I am grateful I no longer try to please anyone other than myself, that I can laugh at myself, that I am human....and that perfection is not what I search for anymore. Flaws are what give us character; they are what make life interesting.

5. A place to sit and watch the world go by.....
My little "nook" in our bedroom.....it looks out onto the neighborhood, and as I sit here, I can watch the sun set. It's in the stillness of that moment, right before the last rays of light are gone, that I know the darkness to come is only for the outside world.....
And as I watch my angels sleep tonight, I know that I am blessed....

A thoughtful post for you all (gosh, I'm awfully reflective this evening!).....tomorrow should bring pictures of something I've been working on....